Episode 09: What’s in your invisible suitcase?

Imagine carrying around an invisible suitcase from your childhood, stuffed with all the unspoken rules, roles, and expectations of your family of origin. Ever wondered how this hidden baggage influences your relationships, your parenting style, or even how you respond to your favorite sitcoms? Well, buckle up. We're about to crack open these weighty suitcases together and make sense of what's inside.

In a revealing exploration of birth order, we shed light on the unique dynamics experienced by middle children or second-borns with older sisters, and the seismic shift of being an only child before gaining a sibling. We also dissect our favorite sitcom family from the show "Bear", unearthing the parallels with our own family roles and quirks. Through the lens of therapy, we navigate these intricate dynamics with sensitivity and non-judgment, offering insights that can illuminate our understanding of self and others.

Then, we dive into the complicated task of blending family backgrounds, and the pivotal role our upbringing plays in shaping our parenting styles. We'll share stories about couples navigating their differences, the societal changes impacting our parenting choices, and the pressing need for self-awareness and open communication. Finally, we'll discuss how understanding and respecting each other’s backgrounds can help establish boundaries, creating a healthy and harmonious family dynamic. So, join us on this journey of self-discovery as we unpack our family origins and the profound impact they have on our lives.